It’s funny how most of the things people think will make them happy actually don’t make them happy but instead leave them even more empty , porn is one of them. Relationships on any level be it family , friends , school or romance plays a role in our happiness, happiness is love and love is relationship. Hence anything that damages our relationships affects our happiness. Porn has a tendency to change the way we relate with people around us.
As human beings when we watch something the neurones in our brain respond and react as if we are actually doing it. This is why when we watch we learn easily. Porn changes people , porn changes how we view things, porn changes what we love. and how we love . Porn makes us have a different perception on how we see ourselves and other people. Porn makes us change the quality of relationships in ourlives , porn makes decrease how much we love people. For men porn makes them think women are nothing but sexual objects and for women porn makes them think their only role is to be sexual objects.
Porn is not about relationships It’s all about selfish desire satisfaction, it’s all about me me me me me . It makes people change the way they view people they love, porn begins to bring in a mindset of less valuable. Porn is a recipe for rape because it makes men start trying out what they see on the screen. Porn is the main cause of the rising cases of teenage brutal sex like never before. Porn has a terrible impact on how people begin to view relationships. Porn changes how we express love , it begins to make people believe the only way to express love is through sex or anything related to intimacy. Porn makes people believe there’s no love without sex.
Studies show that people who watch Porn are more likely to divorce than those who don’t. During sex bonding hormones are released so when one watches porn they bond with the screen making them loose interest in relationships around. The people on the screen never say no and that’s not reality . Hence for someone who watches porn they feel unloved when someone in reality says no even if it’s for their good . True love is focus but what porn does it removes away the focus. When you watch Porn you get distracted from finding true and permanent joy by the temporary satisfaction it offers that leaves you even more thirst.