“Introverts don’t hate small talks because they dislike people its because of the barrier it creates between people” Laurie once said ..Small talks are any conversation on unimportant matters .They are mostly and necessary used when people are new to each other or before a meaniful conversation ,unfortunately small talks have now been abused they are now used for full time conversations ,seriously! Some people maybe just me get drained by small talks. Put me in a room with people who are creative ,talk about life stimulating ideas Or maybe transforming parts of their world I won’t shut up but take me to a party where people care about how they look, who they know ,how they dance or what they own I will just zone out . Small talks are that challenging
Small talks are very predictable like a game of chess where the other person knows the next move of the opponent , However due to small talks people remain ignorant on issues which they have no knowledge about yeah like they are meaningless one doesn’t learn anything new or know anything at the end of it all mxxxxm. Gossiping and lies have now been fertilized as a result of small talks people now have to water their personalities in fear of been left out ,heartbreakingly! Moreover when small talking it just feel unnaturally as most talks are lies and are predictable , as a result of been too predictable people’s creativity is pathetic and morality as gone down recently we hear now people send nude pictures to flirtmates seriously so heart breaking . To Be honest small talks are easily forgotten and add no impact to someone’s life they are just their for the sake of saying we chat seriously. Most people entertain them in the fear of been different yes been different is costly but its worthy it .it doesn’t even make sense how close friends can spend five hours of small talking seriously saht you have the mind of Christ think big outside those boxes.
Failure is our teacher and not our undertaker ,since most are used to small talking You can use those small talks to start big conversations e.g
How are you
Am bored its too sunny u?
Oh really its even hotter here global warming as done us bad How do you think the both of us can contribute and reduce global warming ?
Yeah something like that can transform a small talk in big meaningful conversations which can really help in increasing ones creativity and capacity to view things in a most significant angle . BIG TALKS are lit the novel five wishes can be set as an example an introvert attended a party just to satisfy his fiancee he was spotted by a fellow introvert while everyone was busy drinking smoking and small talking they where talking about ideas transformation plans which resulted in a meaningful evening and lifelong friendship. Moreover you have the mind of Christ your playing small doesn’t save the world they is nothing englitened about shrinking so the people around you may not feel insecure . Use the mind of Christ like Adam did he named animals and called them out the next day that’s deep … Small talks are boring cause people to shut up and zoned out but big meaningful conversation waters creativity and make one a transformation element